Jennifer Lopez may be trying to send a signal about her marriage to Ben Affleck … a signal that doesn’t align with the fact everyone — literally — seems to be moving on.

J Lo hit up Giorgio Baldi restaurant in Santa Monica Saturday night, wearing her wedding ring. She was there with a pal … Ben nowhere in sight.

TMZ broke the story … Ben and J Lo have now put their $60 million home up for sale in an off-market listing with realtor Santiago Arana from The Agency. The house has been quietly shown for the last 2 weeks.

Ben has already moved out of the house … he’s in a rental in Brentwood.

BTW … Ben was out yesterday, still wearing his wedding ring and looking bedraggled.

As for J Lo … our sources say Arana has been showing her houses.

The fact that they’re trying to sell their marital house — one year after buying it — is the handwriting on the wall. It seems this marriage is over, although no one has filed for divorce.

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As we reported, they’re asking around $65 million for the property, but we’re told they’ve spent a ton of money on improvements and that, along with the realtor’s commission and the new mansion tax … they’re set to lose millions on the sale.

Stay tuned …